🌿 How to Overcome Fear of Change This Fall
Gently navigate life’s transitions this fall with somatic grief support, grounded practices, and compassionate tools for embracing change.
Fall is a season of transitions. The air cools, routines shift, and the pace of life often changes. For many, this time of year can bring both beauty and unease. If you’re navigating grief, loss, or a major life transition, these seasonal shifts can stir emotions that feel overwhelming. Whether it’s your first Christmas without a loved one, navigating caregiving burnout, or facing quieter transitions like retirement, relocation, or identity shifts—change can feel like standing at the edge of something unfamiliar.
This isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a human response to uncertainty.
At The Embodied Grief Journey™, we support people who want more than talk therapy. You’re seeking gentle, body-based grief healing, trauma-informed care, and spaces where your grief can be seen and honored. This fall, you can begin to meet change not with fear—but with grounded compassion.
A quiet moment of grounding in the autumn light — creating space to meet change with calm and compassion.
🍂 Why Change Can Feel So Hard
Our brains are wired to seek safety in what’s familiar. Even when change is positive—or inevitable—it can feel disorienting. This is especially true during seasonal transitions, when nature’s shifts mirror our inner landscapes. Shorter days, changing routines, and cultural milestones like the holidays can amplify emotions you’ve been holding quietly all year.
When you’re grieving—whether the death of a parent, partner, sibling, or cherished pet, or the loss of a relationship, role, or identity—change can feel like yet another wave you didn’t ask to ride. Your nervous system may respond by tightening, resisting, or going numb.
Recognizing that fear of change is a biological and emotional response, not a personal failing, is a powerful first step.
🌱 Recognizing the Signs of Fear of Change
Fear of change can show up in many subtle ways. You might notice:
Avoidance of plans, projects, or conversations that signal something new is coming.
Procrastination when facing decisions, even small ones.
Irritability or emotional fatigue, especially when routines shift or expectations rise.
Overthinking every step forward, often imagining worst-case scenarios.
If these feel familiar, know this: you’re not broken. These are common nervous system responses to uncertainty and grief. And they can shift with compassionate support.
🌾 Practical Ways to Cope with Transition
Fear of change isn’t something to fix—it’s something to tend to gently. Here are some supportive practices:
1. Create Simple Grounding Rituals
Start with what’s accessible. Daily breathwork, a warm cup of tea on your porch, a short somatic grounding practice, or mindful walks can signal safety to your body. Body-based grief healing isn’t about forcing change; it’s about giving your nervous system a safe place to land.
2. Honor What You’re Leaving Behind
Change often comes with grief. You may be grieving a person, a season of life, or who you once were. Light a candle, journal, or create a simple ritual to name and honor what’s shifting. This is especially powerful if you’re facing grief during the holidays or navigating your first Christmas without a loved one.
3. Seek Community and Support
Fear softens when witnessed. Joining Zoom grief support groups, an online workshop, or a grief healing retreat can offer a safe container for your emotions. In community, change becomes less of a mountain to climb alone—and more of a shared path forward.
4. Explore Somatic and Trauma-Informed Grief Support
Therapy doesn’t have to look like a clinical office. Through grief coaching online and somatic grief healing, you can work with your body—not against it—to process fear, anchor safety, and build trust in your own capacity to meet change. Trauma-informed grief support helps you navigate transitions at a pace that feels safe and empowering.
🌻 Your Next Step: Embracing Change with Gentle Courage
Change doesn’t have to be something to fear. It can become an opening—a quiet invitation to reconnect with yourself, honor your story, and create new rhythms of care.
If this season feels tender, you’re not alone. I offer embodied grief coaching, online workshops, and Zoom grief support groups designed to help you navigate transitions with compassion, presence, and practical tools.
Dawn M. Geoppinger, Trauma-Informed Grief & Embodiment Coach
Dawn M. Geoppinger is a Trauma-Informed Grief & Embodiment Coach based in Portland, Oregon, with a strong foundation of over two decades of professional experience in public administration, education, and the nonprofit sector. She specializes in grief education, somatic movement, breathwork, and mindfulness, integrating evidence-based approaches such as somatic practices, post-traumatic growth and woman-centered principles to help clients reconnect with themselves, regulate their nervous systems, and honor the full spectrum of loss and healing. Through her practice, The Embodied Grief Journey™, Dawn provides compassionate, expert support both in person and online—creating safe, nurturing spaces for individuals to explore grief, resilience, and embodied healing.
If the holidays feel especially tender this year, know that you’re not alone. The First Christmas Without workshop, Holiday Support Circles, and the Grieving Through the Holidays guided course are here to help you navigate this season with care and steadiness. 👉 Schedule a discovery call to explore how we can walk this path together. Let’s make this fall a season of gentle growth, not silent struggle.
Sign up now to reserve your spot and your free mini-guide: “5 Gentle Ways to Navigate Your First Holiday Without Your Loved One.”
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This workshop is a safe, compassionate space to explore your feelings, honor your loved one, and connect with others who understand. Even one small step toward self-care can make a meaningful difference this season.
                        
              
            
              
            



